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Lalamyc- 05-04-2005
Hey u two!

Yep Joul, as Melody has said it can be quiet sometimes, but is good when people like yourselves come along and use the space as a place to chat. Lol, so here I am saying hi too! Shame neither of you can make it to Le Chinoise..next time! Joul, what kind of work do u do?

joul- 05-09-2005
Actually, I know how much they make and trust me, they make A LOT! And generally I know how to run the store. My manager wanted to promote me as a team leader and maybe I could be the future manager of KFC, but I was like... no way am I going to get stuck in a chicken shop for the rest of my life.

Melody- 05-09-2005
QUOTE (joul @ May 9 2005, 05:25 PM)
in a chicken shop

LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! biggrin.gif Thats funny!!!!! Say that again!! Tell you a secret, I once worked in MacDonalds! I lasted 9 days and could feel myself getting fat just merely breathing the air! And yeah, they make alot of dosh, too! Where I work just now, we sell fashion accessories and they charge sky-high prices for the things they sell, which are made cheaply abroad - China, India, Korea etc. We're about to hit our 1st million squid in a couple of weeks, our branch only. Now, this company is international - just think of the money made!

joul- 05-09-2005
Chicken shop! Chicken shop! Chicken shop! Shicken chop! Shicken chop! LMAO!! biggrin.gif

Wow...they do make a lot of money in the fashion industry. No wonder you're gonna start a business yourself!

Melody- 05-09-2005
lol!!!

And yes...., aint I a clever girl????!! heh. And I like the idea of being a Boss - The Boss... hmm..., something very alluring about that! And it doubles up as my security for coming out. If my parents should take an allergic reaction to me being gay then at least I can shelter and feed myself comfortably! But I doubt they'll disown me or anything drastic.

joul- 05-10-2005
Yes Melody...you're very clever. Being the mistress is always better than being the slave but then again in some situations (ahem!) some people might prefer being the slave! biggrin.gif

And I agree that you should be able to support yourself financially before you come out to your parents. I'm sure they won't disown you or anything drastic like that...but it's better to be safe. You just don't know what the future brings.

Melody- 05-10-2005
QUOTE (joul @ May 10 2005, 08:28 PM)
Yes Melody...you're very clever. Being the mistress is always better than being the slave but then again in some situations (ahem!) some people might prefer being the slave! biggrin.gif

And I agree that you should be able to support yourself financially before you come out to your parents. I'm sure they won't disown you or anything drastic like that...but it's better to be safe. You just don't know what the future brings.

Uh-huh, Joul.... LMAO!!! Sometimes a good whipping is good...... whatever rocks your boat, hunny, I say!!! hehe.. laugh.gif

Yeah, besides, apart from them trying to set me up, I dont feel any need that they should know their daughter is into girls not boys. And itd be stupid for them to kick me out - itd be like telling a chunk of their future "pension" on legs to f-off!! Not that I would ever consider not providing for them of course- even if in the unlikely event that they should disown me.

I want to be my own boss because I want to be rich - very very rich. Working for someone else, I feel their flaws and know theyre not taking themselves to their potentials. Society can be so much better, Joul.

joul- 05-11-2005
LOL!! A good whipping huh? You're quite advanced Melody! wink.gif

As for the family issue, I can only hope that things will go smoothly and my relationship with my family will still be good in the future. I really don't want to be disowned by them or something.

My aim is to be a boss as well. I want to start my own accounting firm but that'll have to wait until I qualify as a chartered accountant. Then I can employ a pretty secretary. LOL! My gf said she'll be in the office to keep an eye on me all the time. biggrin.gif

Melody- 05-11-2005
Nah, Im not into the whipping, just the cuffs and blindfolds...and the gagging with pvc. Thats all. *laughs nervously...* Im a good little chinese girl.

Joul, I'll race you to it - see who becomes BOSS first and who becomes the first millionaire (hey, theres no fun in being a boss if youre not rich or have power!!)?!!! Haha - heres some advice from me to your gf - why bother to sit in a boring hot office all day just to keep an eye on gf, when you can go out and help her spend some of that hard cash that shes raking through... just make sure she hires a pretty BOY secretary or someone with whiskers and bunions. Job done! lol!!

joul- 05-12-2005
Uhmm..just spanking for me. LOL!! ph34r.gif

Melody...there's not going to be a race coz at the rate I'm going, I'll probably be about 50 when I finally have my own firm! Well, I won't mind you buying me lunch all the time since you're gonna be rich. tongue.gif

And I just made sure my gf didn't read this particular post of yours. LOL! Don't want you putting ideas in her head. I told her in the future I'll give her a credit card with a £1000 credit and £500 allowance and she was like...what can I buy with that!! Looks like I have to hide some of my salary from her in the future.

Melody- 05-13-2005
LOL!!!!!!!! Thats mean! What do you mean £1000 credit £500 allowance???? What can you buy with that?????? I mean, when youre 50, inflation wouldve gone up by so much by then... aswell.. Your gf right!! haha!

Awww...., Im sure it wont take you that long to get your own firm - 50 - thats quite a long way away! You have a quarter of a century yet!

Of course I'll treat you to lunch once Im rich - you can dine wherever you like, eat as much as you want, drink as much as you please - money is made ro be spent, honey!!!!!

But seriously speaking, to start my own business, I need my own capital. I cant buy things to sell if I dont have the money to buy in the first place. So, as it is, I need to make as much money just now and as quickly as possible, so I have the power to go abroad and import stuff, until then, it is mostly all talk and paper. My dad said he will give me some financial support intially to get started, providing that I am TRULY serious about it, but still, I feel I need more money - that money isnt coming in fast enough. There are other ways I can make additional money, which I would quite like to, but it feels I may be tempting fate, or playing with the devil's fire abit too closely.. but hey, its an idea that I'll keep, and maybe just, I might... rolleyes.gif

joul- 05-15-2005
QUOTE (Melody @ May 14 2005, 01:06 AM)
Of course I'll treat you to lunch once Im rich - you can dine wherever you like, eat as much as you want, drink as much as you please - money is made ro be spent, honey!!!!!


Well said woman! And I'll hold you to that. I'm already spending money I don't have anyway. LOL!

And what do you mean by I'm being mean?!! £1500 is A LOT of money! She can buy loads of groceries so she can cook for me...hahahah! Ok...I shall quit being mean since I'm a nice person. But honestly, she can buy whatever she wants or I'll buy it for her since I love spoiling my gf. wub.gif

Melody...since when is money coming in fast enough?? As for other ways of making money...as long as it's legal and not dangerous, then I guess it's ok. I don't know...I'm quite 'conservative' when it comes to earning money. I guess I earn money the hard way and that's exactly why I'm so poor. LOL! I think I'll still be the same in the future coz there'll be more at stake. I might lose my professional status if I'm ever convicted of anything...even if it's small little frauds.

joul- 05-18-2005
About the whole posing semi nude thing, I would suggest you think about whether you'll regret it in the future. If you think you can handle all the hassle that you might get in the future regarding this issue, then go ahead and do it. And yeah...I know...can you imagine if your relative stumble onto those pics? You'll never hear the end of it, that I can tell you. And as for your parents, yes they WILL skin you alive and probably pour salt on you. ohmy.gif I personally won't do it (doesn't really matter coz I don't have the body to do it!! LOL! laugh.gif ) but I'm sure you're old enough to think for yourself.

joul- 05-29-2005
Yes...I am very scary when I'm serious so beware!! Muahahaha!! And what??!! You're posing nude? Now you *have* to give me the website address so I can take a look. *starts bashing myself* Oh I forgot...I'm supposed to discourage you, I think. biggrin.gif

joul- 06-02-2005
LOL! But Melody...I thought you're kinkeh and *love* pain? You'll probably enjoy the beehind kicking or some whipping! Just leave the spanking for me! Muahahah! laugh.gif (I think we're scaring everyone away!)

Oh yeay! Women only gym...any cute girls there? (I have to stop my gf from reading this!) ph34r.gif

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